In a world where social engagement is often considered the norm, the thought of being alone might be seen as unusual or even undesirable. But, for some people, solitude is a way of life, a choice they have taken to pursue their own happiness. I can attest to the fact that being able to live alone and thrive is a superpower as someone who has been seeking isolation for almost two decades.
Contrary to popular opinion, not everyone thinks that everyone can find someone to love them. Some individuals, like myself, thrive in solitude and can go for extended periods of time without interacting with others. Even though they are uncommon, these people do exist and can successfully navigate through life. However, society frequently leaves these people with scars that make them feel like outcasts. But why bother with the uneducated and haughty attitudes of society? Why not start over in a another country, leaving everything and everyone behind?
Living alone is a preference, not a sin. If you choose to spend your entire life alone, that is acceptable. While the bulk of people in society want for companionship or someone by their side, this does not exclude us from finding lasting happiness on our own. It is absolutely OK to seek happiness in your own way without harming others.
There are countless things you can do and become in this world. The secret is to be authentic and make an effort. People don't deserve someone like you if they don't like you for that. And although being in a relationship at some point in our lives may be enjoyable, it need not last a lifetime. We avoid partnerships occasionally because we have unrealistic expectations of what the other person can provide.
In conclusion, while being a seeker of isolation may not be for everyone, for those that do, it may be a lovely experience. It serves as a reminder that we are not always required to act in accordance with social norms or expectations. Alternatively, we can forge our own course, stay true to who we are, and go after what makes us happy even if that means going it alone.
