Wednesday 6 May 2020

Living a life of solitude!


In a world where social engagement is often considered the norm, the thought of being alone might be seen as unusual or even undesirable. But, for some people, solitude is a way of life, a choice they have taken to pursue their own happiness. I can attest to the fact that being able to live alone and thrive is a superpower as someone who has been seeking isolation for almost two decades.

Contrary to popular opinion, not everyone thinks that everyone can find someone to love them. Some individuals, like myself, thrive in solitude and can go for extended periods of time without interacting with others. Even though they are uncommon, these people do exist and can successfully navigate through life. However, society frequently leaves these people with scars that make them feel like outcasts. But why bother with the uneducated and haughty attitudes of society? Why not start over in a another country, leaving everything and everyone behind?

Living alone is a preference, not a sin. If you choose to spend your entire life alone, that is acceptable. While the bulk of people in society want for companionship or someone by their side, this does not exclude us from finding lasting happiness on our own. It is absolutely OK to seek happiness in your own way without harming others.

There are countless things you can do and become in this world. The secret is to be authentic and make an effort. People don't deserve someone like you if they don't like you for that. And although being in a relationship at some point in our lives may be enjoyable, it need not last a lifetime. We avoid partnerships occasionally because we have unrealistic expectations of what the other person can provide.

In conclusion, while being a seeker of isolation may not be for everyone, for those that do, it may be a lovely experience. It serves as a reminder that we are not always required to act in accordance with social norms or expectations. Alternatively, we can forge our own course, stay true to who we are, and go after what makes us happy even if that means going it alone.


 


Friday 17 January 2020

Age Doesn't matter!


Do you ever have the impression that life has already been planned out for you? like you're required to go along a particular road without thinking twice? Maybe without anyone asking if you were mentally prepared, you were instructed what to study, when to get married, and even when to have children. Although this sentiment is widespread, the truth is that we have the power to make our lives beautiful. And there is never a bad time to go after your dreams.

The clock starts ticking as soon as we enter this planet, serving as a constant reminder of how short our time is here. Sadly, a lot of us are unaware of this. We frequently allow society or our families run our lives, and as a result, we feel as though we've lost the opportunity to accomplish our ambitions. Yet, the truth is that you may always try again and pursue your goals.

Never let your age stand in the way of attaining your ambitions. No of your age or previous professional history, you can succeed. Consider Johanna Ouaas as an illustration. She is the oldest gymnast still competing in the world at the age of 86, and her name is even listed in the Guinness Book of World Records. Nicola Griffin, for example, who began modeling at age 53 and has had considerable success.

The key message is that there is never a bad time to pursue your goals. We shouldn't waste time pretending to be happy or blaming fate because time does not wait for anyone. It's up to you to take initiative and make adjustments if you're unhappy with your life as it now is. No matter what other people may say, it's never too late to pursue your goals and succeed. You are the only one who is keeping you back.

So, stop for a moment and consider what you really want out of life. What dreams and passions do you have? What would actually bring you joy? Take action after that. Even while it might not be simple, it's never too late to try again and pursue